" MIND YOUR LANGUAGE!!"
Please read the above title 4-5 times till you get the phrase verbatim. Now, what does it mean?
'Minding', as a verb, means taking care, protecting or monitoring. The easy way to understand is in the sentence, "the monitor is minding the class in the absence of the teacher". The word 'mind' also has many meanings and usages. However, in this sentence, 'Mind your Language!!', it is used as a warning to alert you to take care of what you utter.... both normally, or when you are taken by surprise!
Every human being can think, this is the gift of the creator. We all can express our thoughts for others to hear. When you communicate, see that the words are not harsh, not negative, not biased. Do not jump into conclusion, and try not to be judgmental. Also, do not belittle anyone by your words. We all have our own faults as well as our own glory. When you analyse, you will notice that there are differences in the quantum, or type of quality, within each of us. Respect the differences, as no two brains need to think alike. (if they do, you are lucky! ☺). Express your perspective but patiently wait as the other person expresses his/hers. Use a respectable language to explain your viewpoint. This will make you popular even if you are an opponent.
On flip-side, be firm not to let others belittle you. You know how much care you take to weigh your words before you talk. Sometimes you become a recipient of an impulsive outburst. In such a case, you would naturally be furious and upset at the time. However, understand the immaturity or over-smartness of the speaker and stay calm, (even if you fume from within). If possible, smile! This will make them wonder why they cannot break your composure!. That is your Ace Moment!
So, from your side, r own, see that you use firm, yet positive words. Frame sentences that get constructive impact and optimistic results. Leave time for the partner to think and act.... as sometimes, it takes a while for good words to sink in! ☺☺. Good Luck!!
- © Shanta Ramakrishnan, Mumbai
03-March-2021
2 comments:
Shanta.. you have conveyed everything so wonderfully.
Pause before judging. Pause whenever u r about to react harshly and you will avoid using words which you will regret later.
Looking forward to many such inspirational write ups.
Very nice blog . I liked it because these are the issues that we face daily and gentle reminder like this will help us or sooth us.
Really needed Shanta madam. Keep the good work going.
Lakshmi Maganti
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